My dating habits are of concern to many of my friends and by dating habits I mean my lack of dating. It is funny how right now I have tons of friends who keep telling me I need to date more. This is defiantly something I need to work on; I think I am just too scared.
I am so ridiculous in the things I am scared about. I am afraid of getting my heart broken and of breaking someone else's heart. I know I limit myself by letting my fears control my life but I just won't let myself break free of those fears that hold me back. I know it is something I can change, so why don't I? Why?
Maybe I'm broken. Yep, I am sure that's it. I better get a cat...
Split pea soup with salt lamb - Saltkjöt og baunir
11 months ago
3 comments:
If dating makes you nervous you are NOT broken. Or maybe I just don't want to confess that *I* am broken. Either way, I was wondering if you wanted to go pick out cats together. Heh.
sounds like a plan. So, dating is treating you pretty rough too?
First of all, everyone is nervous about dating to some extent. Second, lack of dating is not necessarily a problem. I had people bug me about it a lot too (ironically, it was mostly my guy friends...), but frankly, I enjoy being single so much that dating doesn't really appeal to me right now. If you feel comfortable not dating, then there's nothing wrong with it. Mormons are just insane.
However, if you would rather be dating, and you're just frustrated because your fears are holding you back, that's a completely different story. But trust me, even if you just start making friends with guys, one will eventually fall in your lap. If it could happen to someone like ME, and I really don't try at ALL, then it will certainly happen to you, because you are a much better person :)
(sorry for leaving such a long comment)
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